If I had a nickel for every time someone said to me in the last 5 months since loosing my job that ‘when one door closes, another opens’ I’d be a very rich person! There have been many times when I might have given up in total frustration. If I could have talked my husband into ‘falling off the grid’ I might have done it. Except for one thing…I had made a commitment to my family, my art and writing.
I started my first blog, http://WendyFallonBlog.wordpress.com, to give me something constructive to do and to practice my art and writing. I was surprised to find that being unemployed was causing me to feel guilty, a definite lack of self-worth, and all-around depressed! Unemployment began to lower my self-esteem, even though I knew I was a uniquely creative individual (as is everyone!)
But with encouragement from my husband, I was able push myself into submitting resumes daily, and continued to post my drawings and writing. I began to take some pride in what I was and still am, creating and my efforts have led to a second blog, http://makeartbehappy.worpress.com , website, e-books and articles.
All of this, done consistently, has created an online presence and ‘platform’ for my writing and art skills. I firmly believe these activities have also kept me positive enough to recognize unexpected opportunities. When a writer friend and previous co-worker emailed and told me someone we’d both worked with (over 7 years ago) needed a technical writer, I told her I was interested. That was three months ago.
Today I received a phone call offering me work as an Information Developer for a software company, working from my home office and at a very nice wage. Needless to say, I’ve accepted! YIPPEE!!!!!
Staying in the game, networking, showcasing my skills and NOT GIVING UP has paid off more than I ever expected – and if I can do it, you can too!