The simple act of writing, either with paper and pen or laptop, has become a tool I use to shape my life.
Take lists for example. I’ve always used lists for practical, everyday things like groceries or things I need to do.
But lately I’ve started making different kinds of lists. These have become a way to organize my thoughts and ideas. I’ve written lists of simple actions, definitions, suggestions concerning creativity, and notes about how to incorporate them into my life. I’ve found out that by building on these lists I can also define my goals for the future.
These new lists have been providing me with ideas about things I can do to get out of my everyday routine or broaden or change my point of view. Each item seems to provide options, alternatives, and otherwise help me experience a richer, in-the-moment, life. Sometimes they help me learn something new about myself or about the world around me.
By writing things down, I’m also helping my memory. This may sound ridiculously obvious, but I’m talking about how my brain actually processes and retains information. During college I conducted an experiment about how humans remember things. Apart from learning that we all have different ways of absorbing information, I learned that I am able to remember and assimilate information much easier by writing it down…longhand.
So the physical act of writing with pen and paper (and possibly by typing it into my laptop), combined with my drawing has become not only a source of great satisfaction, but also a way for me to build a road map through my life; past, present and future.
Making lists is one of many ways to start writing. What would you list? Here are a few suggestions for exercises from my own lists:
Learn to ride a bicycle, or take a bike ride. Write down 5 things you saw on your ride that you had not noticed before. Write down how riding a bike makes you feel. This will strengthen your ability to observe, experience and enjoy the world around you.
Write down 5 things you are afraid to do (ride a bike, give a speech, go anywhere by yourself, take a balloon ride, [fill in the blank.]) Pick one and do it. This will strengthen your self-confidence.
Fly a kite, build a sandcastle, sing in the shower, bake cupcakes, eat an ice cream cone – preferably with a child. Make a list of simple activities that you’ve enjoyed or make you feel good. This will remind you to treat yourself lovingly, and remind you to be joyful.